Kids close to their parents are more independent as adults

A close relationship with parents is often viewed as a sign of dependence, but a new research has found that young adults who share a strong bond with their parents exhibit greater independence in their personal lives than those who have a distant relationship.

Dr. Irit Yanir from the University of Haifa evaluated how a parent-child relationship is connected to one''s ability to fulfill society''s expectations in terms of settling down and establishing an intimate relationship.

As part of the study, she conducted in-depth interviews with psychologists, parents and young adults between the ages of 23-27. An additional 100 families (father, mother and child) completed 300 surveys.

Dr. Yanir believes a close relationship with parents is one in which kids talk with their parents often and regularly spend time together such as eating meals together and one in which a child feels comfortable sharing his thoughts and experiences with his parents.

She differentiated between connectedness and relationship-orientation, which refers to the youth''s need to satisfy his parents and fulfill their expectations. A connected offspring may share with his parents and solicit their advice, and still make independent choices and decisions.

"An independent young adult is one who exhibits independence not only in his day-to-day life but also in the emotional sphere, and who makes his way in life with emotional and intellectual autonomy," she said.

A close relationship is often viewed as a sign of dependence but the research results revealed that those with close relationships with their parents were more financially self-sufficient, more independent in their day-to-day lives, professionally stable, felt more mature and were more likely to be involved in a stable intimate relationship.

Those who maintained distant relationship with their parents and tended to make choices out of a need to rebel against their parents'' expectations were less independent into their late 20s.

"The research found that following adolescence, the familial connection is an important factor in forming one''s identity and living an independent life. It seems that not only can independence and closeness exist together, but they actually flourish together," Dr. Yanir said. (ANI)

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